Being an artist means forever healing your own wounds and at the same time endlessly exposing them.
Annette Messager.
Inside us there is a word we cannot pronounce, and that is who we are.
Anthony Marra.
The only way to find true happiness is to risk being completely cut open.
Chuck Palahniuk, Invisible Monsters.
Its so fun looking back at Chuck's writing through queer-glasses! Yes!? This statement! Also, Yes?!!? So much trans and queer text THAT WAS VERY MUCH NOT ONLY SUBTEXT. LOOKING DIRECTLY AT YOU, LULLABY?!? THE TRANS BOOK??!
I dearly love a laugh… I hope I never ridicule what is wise or good. Follies and nonsense, whims and inconsistencies do divert me, I own, and I laugh at them whenever I can.
Elizabeth Bennet, Pride & Prejudice by Jane Austen.
Elizabeth Bennet is SUCH MASSIVE AuHD representation for me lmfao. Darcy is too tbh. Darcy prolly aint ADHD tho, just autistic. THATS WHY THEY'RE GOOD TOGETHER.
He was a gangling creature of potential, a barrel of dynamite waiting for someone or something to light his fuse; but no one did.
Stardust by Neil Gaiman.
I still love this quote and enjoy the limited amount of his works I've actually read, but ugh, Neil, disappointed tbh.
Being a geek is all about being honest about what you enjoy and not being afraid to demonstrate that affection. It means never having to play it cool about how much you like something. It’s basically a license to proudly emote on a somewhat childish level rather than behave like a supposed adult. Being a geek is extremely liberating.
Simon Pegg.
AuDH core.
I’m not the only kid
who grew up this way
surrounded by people who used to say
that rhyme about sticks and stones
as if broken bones
hurt more than the names we got called
and we got called them all
so we grew up believing no one
would ever fall in love with us
that we’d be lonely forever
that we’d never meet someone
to make us feel like the sun
was something they built for us
in their tool shed
so broken heart strings bled the blues
as we tried to empty ourselves
so we would feel nothing
don’t tell me that hurts less than a broken bone
that an ingrown life
is something surgeons can cut away
that there’s no way for it to metastasize
it does
To This Day by Shane Koyczan.
Yes, I still cry like a baby when I listen to this.
In an entertainment world where women are disappearing from multiplexes, where men bulk up as superheroes while women don’t eat but sip pink drinks, we need to remember that there was once a very short heroine who hunted monsters and talked about Einstein, who kicked ass and questioned her faith, who went to work with a man she loved but didn’t rip his shirt off over lunch, who didn’t want to believe, but opened herself nonetheless to possibility. We need Scully back, even for a moment.
Rebecca Traister.
I should move these X Files Quotes to an X Files Shirne Probably one day lmfaoooooo.
Well, it seems to me that the best relationships - the ones that last - are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is... suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.
Dana Scully.
So Sonia was not my only or even my first best friend. She was the last. It wasn't that I hadn't made friends since, just that I thought myself past the age of that particular kind of friendship. Adult friendship doesn't grant you an exclusive, isn't meant to be ranked above romance and family. I couldn't imagine ever living that moment again when you say with a shy and hopeful pride "You're my best friend." The other person says it back and there, you have chosen each other out of everyone else in the world.
Leah Stewart, The Myth of You and Me.
I read this book when I was like 14 or something and loved it. Rereading this quote at 32 is making me MAD. Fuck the idea that adult friendship can't be ranked on the same level or above that of romance or family. I know ~oUr SoCiEtY~ views it like this, but its bullshit. Part of my identity as a queer person is the antithesis of this idea, and the desire for queerplatonic relationships.
I'm going to love my friends how ever closely I want! My friends are quite literally my chosen family or I would not call them friends but acquantances! I know that I liked this quote because I was very lonely and felt isolated a lot as a child (trauma dump), and I was grieving for feeling like my friendships weren't or couldn't be as close or involved as I wanted them to be. I love my friends very much and I wish I could see them more. I am not gonna perpetuate the idea that adult friendships aren't equal to romance or family any more! It does not align with me at all. The only thing I align with is the the yearning and longing for close relationships.
You don't love someone because they're perfect, you love them in spite of the fact that they're not
Jodi Picoult, My Sister's Keeper.